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Musings from a frugal thirty-something single mom . .

Borrowing Money From A Friend? July 3, 2009

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2005 Toyota Highlander

This year one of my financial goals has been to pay off my car.  Sounds simple, right?  Not so much.

To begin my story, let me preface by saying that I grew up in car dealerships.  My mom and dad seemed to buy a new/used car every two years.  Needless to say, I spent alot of times a kid a in a car dealer or waiting in the car for them to finalize a deal so we could drive home in a new van or car or truck.

Fast forward to my adulthood-I love the smell of new cars!!!!

The story pattern started in 1999 (I was 26), when I leased a Toyota Corolla.  At this point in my young life I had already owned two cars.  The Toyota Corolla was a great car, but leasing is a big no-no!!!!

Two years later-still in the middle of my lease-I decide I want to buy a new car.I turn in the Corolla (accepting penalties for turning in a lease early) and bought a used Toyota RAV-4.  I got a horrible deal, rolled leasing fees from the previous car into the RAV-4 loan, and drove off happy!

Two years later the new car bug hit and I felt I needed to upgrade.  I returned to the same dealer and this time bought a Toyota Highlander, rolling more money into my new car loan.  Umm, can you say impulsive? 

Here I am, then, five years into the loan, and as of January 2009 I still had $16K left on the loan.  I started to snowball my debt (thanks to Dave Ramsey) and so far I have paid off $10K . . . in six months!

To save money on the loan, a couple months ago I was talking to a great friend who is my financial inspiration right now.  I was considering refinancing my loan, not to lengthen the term but to lower my interest rate.  My friend offered to pay off the loan amount, giving me a lower interest rate than the bank, thus helping her earn a bit of money AND saving me money in interest.

I pondered this idea for two months,and talked with a couple friends about the challenges of borrowing money from a friend.  Would it ruin a friendship?  

In the end I decided that my friendship with my financially savvy friend is strong enough to support a loan between friends.  This week we went to the bank together and she paid off my car loan, essentially saving me a couple hundred dollars in interest by offering me a low interest rate.    My goal is to pay off the loan in nine months so I can FINALLY be rid of this trail of car debt that has been weighing me down for too many years.